So you’re saying I should do what most people with pain do and “continue to paint over the rotting wood”… keeping up appearances, trying to forget the pain?
I stand my ground. Pain tells us something needs to change. If we stand on a nail, pain tells me something’s wrong with my foot, and I need to assess the damage done; I’ll need to change the location of my foot, and if necessary, take action to prevent bleeding or infection. Common sense really.
Is it not better to deal with the source of the pain than to take pain killers? My addiction is one that grants a temporary release from the world. A temporary release from the pain. Self-medicating, if you will.
I can feel this pain in my heart (not the one that pumps blood, the one that loves). Should I just take a pain-killer? Or should I safely remove the ‘nail’ that I’ve only just realised is poked through it?
]]>]]>Thank you very much for your message, and for discovering the fable of “Kevin & Kell.” I really appreciate it, and I’m glad that the lives of the Dewclaws have touched you. Lindesfarne’s story is indeed that of overcoming barriers preventing others from getting close, and it’s something she deals with every day. Her success in that regard can be an inspiration.
Best,
Bill Holbrook